One day I was assaulted. For this character that I put on so effortlessly. The stud. I wasn’t assaulted in the worst way possible as society defines it. Coz it considers rape the worst misdemeanor. When will people ever understand that assault does not always mean those physical signs of abuse? It does not have […]

Someone mentioned that today is No Tobacco day and I thought well I should write an article on this,Some relatives once mentioned that the only way to smoke cigarrettes is when you have well mantained nails,Preferably polished; am not sure who made this rule but I think it is for the polished,My first encounters with […]

Where I come from, smoking is not a gendered thing, tobacco is for everyone. Growing up I always found women who smoked a lot attractive maybe because they were few or I could never talk to them about it, I did ask men though, who told me that if I smoked I would go bald, […]

Merry Christmas Happy holidays To all queer persons reading this I hope you have family to celebrate withChosen family too counts I send hugs to all that don’t have family I send love to those that have been disowned You are loved, you are valuedFind someone to smile with, If two or more gather… Be […]

Beautiful skin I had when we met, Melanin, dark, chocolate and smooth but I don’t know where it went, One morning walking in town she decided to slap me in front of people, Shocked as I was, I run away with tears running down my cheeks, Why did she slap me? What did I do? […]